--- title: "Pet and owner: 5 key elements of their relationship" description: "\"Dr Maria Grazia Calore identifies 5 key elements of the pet-owner relationship and offers advice on how to interact with them in the best possible way...\"" image: https://blog.almonature.com/hubfs/Imported_Blog_Media/andom1140-Jan-03-2022-12-18-42-46-PM.jpg --- [![almonature-logo-4](https://blog.almonature.com/hubfs/almonature-logo-4.svg) ](https://www.almonature.com/en/?hsLang=en-ca) ![EN](https://blog.almonature.com/hubfs/country_flags/ca.svg) [![almonature-logo-4](https://blog.almonature.com/hubfs/almonature-logo-4.svg) ](https://www.almonature.com/en/?hsLang=en-ca) - Products - About us - [Where to buy](https://www.almonature.com/it/trova-un-negozio?hsLang=en-ca) Products - Cat Food - Dog Food - Cat Litter Cat Food - [Natural HQS](https://www.almonature.com/en-ca/cat-products?segment=Natural%20HQS&hsLang=en-ca) - [Mousse HQS](https://www.almonature.com/en-ca/cat-products?segment=Mousse%20HQS&hsLang=en-ca) - [Complete HQS](https://www.almonature.com/en-ca/cat-products?segment=Complete%20HQS&hsLang=en-ca) - [La Cucina HQS](https://www.almonature.com/en-ca/cat-products?segment=La%20Cucina%20HQS&hsLang=en-ca) - [Supportive Formulas HQS](https://www.almonature.com/en-ca/cat-products?segment=Supportive%20Formulas%20HQS&hsLang=en-ca) - [Hydration Help HQS](https://www.almonature.com/en-ca/cat-products?segment=Hydration%20Help%20HQS&hsLang=en-ca) - [Classic Complete](https://www.almonature.com/en-ca/cat-products?segment=Classic%20Complete&hsLang=en-ca) [![bio-diversity-menu-icon](https://blog.almonature.com/hubfs/bio-diversity-menu-icon.png) All Cat Food ](https://www.almonature.com/en-us/cat-products?hsLang=en-ca) Dog Food - [Natural HQS](https://www.almonature.com/en-ca/dog-products?segment=Natural%20HQS&hsLang=en-ca) - [Complete HQS](https://www.almonature.com/en-ca/dog-products?segment=Complete%20HQS&hsLang=en-ca) [![bio-diversity-menu-icon](https://blog.almonature.com/hubfs/bio-diversity-menu-icon.png) All dog food ](https://www.almonature.com/en-us/dog-products?hsLang=en-ca) Cat Litter - [All Litter](https://www.almonature.com/it/lettiere?hsLang=en-ca) - [Soft Texture](https://www.almonature.com/it/catlitter-soft-texture?hsLang=en-ca) - [Grain Texture](https://www.almonature.com/it/catlitter-grain-texture?hsLang=en-ca) About us - [Brand Profile](https://www.almonature.com/it/manifesto?hsLang=en-ca) - [Our history](https://www.almonature.com/it/la-storia?hsLang=en-ca) - [The company](https://www.almonature.com/it/rendicontazione?hsLang=en-ca) - [Reintegration Economy](https://www.almonature.com/it/reintegration-economy?hsLang=en-ca) ![Pet and owner: 5 key elements of their relationship](https://blog.almonature.com/hubfs/Imported_Blog_Media/andom1140-Jan-03-2022-12-18-42-46-PM.jpg) Relationships between pets and their owners are quite different from those established between humans. **Dr Maria Grazia Calore**, veterinary doctor and expert in pet behaviour, has identified five key elements of this bond for us, useful not only to understand the nature of dogs and cats but also to interact with them in the most advantageous manner possible. ### **1. Elective Affinities** Pets ‘perceive' us in a different way, picking up our ‘secret' information from pheromones emitted by the skin. Thanks to these chemical messages our four-legged friends will understand if they can get close to us or if it is better to stay away. ### **2. Social reference or equal?** After their arrival in the family home, a **dog** will automatically try to form social relationships with all the members of the ‘ [family-pack](https://www.almonature.com/en/reads/role-pack-leader-dog/?hsLang=en-ca)' by creating different ‘roles' for each family member according to how it views them.For **a cat** however, the bond with its new, human owner will develop into a [relationship similar to friendship](https://www.almonature.com/en/reads/do-cats-choose-an-owner/?hsLang=en-ca): it will consider us its equal in every way. ### **3. Not only food**** ** It's wrong to believe that cats and dogs create closer relations with **those who prepare their food**.In fact, equally important in a **dog's social reinforcement **is the satisfaction of doing something with the owner, working towards a common goal or receiving a ‘well done' cuddle; sometimes these experiences are worth more than a thousand tidbits!Even in the eyes of **our cat**, we don't just represent a vending machine of kibbles. Indeed, our feline often judges us so inept in the art of hunting that it presents us with prey to teach us how to do it! ### **4. The importance of being Ernest** We must be careful, just as in the novel quoted above, to avoid misunderstandings with our pets. For example, when we ask a dog to approach we shouldn't adopt a position that might frighten it – but use a bent forward posture – we should also avoid talking using an angry or an excessively high tone of voice. Both an incorrect **posture** and the wrong tone of **voice** are communicating that there is a danger while the words are asking him to approach the threat – these conflicting messages will be confusing for your pet!In the presence of a **cat** however, if we move too quickly or if we hide our hands or feet under a blanket, they could associate us with prey and attack. So reacting with a rebuke to a normal behaviour of predation can risk undermining our friendship. ### **It's matter of…** **Respect, understanding and desire to communicate**: three elements that, together with affection, will ensure that the relationship with our four-legged friend works. **– Respect** means satisfying the behavioural needs of their species: we should ensure our dogs socialise, let them explore the environment, sniff and mark the ground. 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